I have shared an apartment with roommates for several years. After starting a high-paying job, one roommate discovered my income due to an accident. Am I in the wrong?
i feel like you arent the asshl for keppin your salary private. its your personal info not theirs so dont feel obliged to share and cover all your bases personally.
The decision to keep your salary confidential is ultimately your business. I have experienced a similar situation where my roommate discovered my financial details inadvertently, and it led to uncomfortable comparisons and misunderstandings about shared expenses. In my case, maintaining privacy helped avoid undue pressure and resentment. It is important to note that while transparency can be beneficial in certain financial agreements, personal earnings do not have to be disclosed if they do not directly affect shared responsibilities or agreements regarding rent. Your approach appears reasonable.
I see your point. Keeping your salary private can avoid unwanted comparisons. Have you considered discussing overall cost-sharing without getting into personal details? I’m curious what worked for others in similar situations.
hey, i think keeping your salary private is legit. its about personal boundaries. maybe just focus on clear cost splits, so no one’s confused. you’re good.
My experience in similar situations has taught me that while transparency is key in shared financial arrangements, salary details are personal. I once faced a scenario where my private income led to awkward discussions, and it became clear that maintaining some boundaries was beneficial. The focus should be on mutually agreed-upon expenses rather than individual salaries. Keeping personal income confidential helps prevent unnecessary tension and comparisons, provided the costs are split fairly. In my view, as long as both parties agree on the terms regarding the expenses, your approach is justified.