Summary: I lost control when my pregnant partner lashed out following our landlord’s decision to cancel a generous rent discount. Am I really at fault for my reaction?
Emotional responses in fraught situations are seldom black and white. I personally believe that while it’s understandable for stress to lead your emotions astray, the key is accepting responsibility for how you respond. In my experience, taking time to reflect on both your inner stress and your partner’s emotional strain can help improve communication. Even if your reaction was understandable under the circumstances, exploring alternative methods to manage stress might prevent future escalation and help maintain mutual respect during difficult times.