After agreeing to share an apartment and split the rent, my mom insists on old household rules from my childhood. Am I wrong for refusing?
imho, not following these old rules means u setting healthy adlt boundaries. its ok to build ur own routine. maybe ease a bit if mum gets too uppity, but stay tru 2 ur self and grow.
Interesting dilemma! It feels like you’re building a new adult relationship while still tied to childhood dynamics. Have you thought about what each of you actually needs? Maybe exploring those deeper could help rebuild your shared home rules in a way that respects both perspectives.
In settings where old familial rules are being imposed despite clearly defined responsibilities, it can be beneficial to discuss boundaries in detail. Drawing from experience in a similar situation, I found that establishing new expectations tailored to an adult partnership helps avoid misunderstandings. Focus on creating a system that respects both members’ independence and shared commitments. A candid discussion that redefines traditional roles in the context of a modern living arrangement may yield more harmonious results, aligning responsibilities with personal growth and mutual respect in the apartment setup.
Have you thought about negotiating new boundaries that fit your adult dynamic? It might be fun to blend a bit of old-school charm with your modern approach. What kind of compromises could make both of you feel respected in the space?