Curious about affording high mortgages in this area - how do you manage?

Hey folks,

I’m wondering how people in our area are handling these sky-high housing costs. It seems like home prices are constantly climbing. For those of you with hefty mortgages (think $3500+), how do you make it work?

I’m particularly interested in:

  • Your household income
  • Family size
  • Monthly mortgage payment
  • Did you opt for a newly built home?
  • Are there additional fees like Mello-Roos?

I’ve also heard property taxes and insurance costs are on the rise. Has anyone experienced significant increases in their monthly payments?

As someone looking to buy, I’m a bit nervous about all the stories I’m hearing. Any insights or experiences you can share would be super helpful!

Thanks in advance for your input!

man, i feel ya. we’re in the same boat - 4k mortgage, 2 kids, both workin our butts off. it’s tight but we make it work. cut back on extras, packed lunches, no fancy vacations. but hey, beats rentin right? just make sure u got a good cushion before jumpin in. good luck!

Wow, those prices are eye-watering! Have you considered looking into first-time homebuyer programs? They might offer some relief. What’s your ideal budget? I’m curious how others are making it work too. Maybe there are creative solutions we haven’t thought of yet?

As someone who’s been through this process, I can tell you it’s not easy, but it’s doable. My wife and I bought a home last year with a $3800 monthly mortgage. We’re both professionals in tech, with a combined income of around $220k. We have two kids, so budgeting is crucial.

We opted for a slightly older home to avoid Mello-Roos and save on the purchase price. However, our property taxes did increase by about $200 this year, which was a bit of a shock.

The key for us has been aggressive budgeting and cutting back on non-essentials. We cook at home more, limit vacations, and put a hold on big purchases. It’s tight sometimes, but we’re making it work. The equity build-up makes it feel worthwhile in the long run.

My advice? Run the numbers carefully and have a solid emergency fund before jumping in. The market is tough, but homeownership can still be rewarding if you’re prepared.